Let me touch on something right quick...
Do we ask for certain things in our life to happen? No and Yes... And lets just touch on a few scenarios..
Would I ask for someone to hit me while driving down the road? NO.. Would I ask for my husband to cheat on me? NO.. Would I ask for my child to get sick? NO.. Would I ask to get my house foreclosed on? NO.. !!!!!!!!!
These are situations that I do not think anyone would ask or wish for.. These are some of life's situations, although we would not ask or wish for these things to happen to anyone, sometimes they do.. Its LIFE !! So when these things happen, as friends or caring human beings we should be there for each other as we would want someone to be there for us..
On the other hand... sometimes our actions make or allow certain situations to happen... Lets touch on that for a minute..
If you run around and shop, shop, shop.. and spend all your $$$$$$$ and you cant pay your power bill.. Well that's your fault and your fault ONLY.. Or lets say that you leave your job thinking things would be greener on the other side?? And come to find out its NOT.. Well its your fault.. No one elses.. Or lets say you think having an affair would make you HAPPY.. and come to find out it does NOT.. well you done that your self too..
YOUR actions caused all of these mistakes not someone else.. You can blame all day long on why you did something to try to justify it, but at the end of the day.. YOUR actions caused your situation..
So, the moral of this post is this.. "Bad" things happen to "Good" people.. It happens everyday..
So the next time you want to criticize someone because of there situation you need to ask yourself this question...
Is this something that there actions made happen or the actions of someone else... Also, just remember my last post about judging others....
Just like my one comment said...We will "ALL" be judged by a higher power one day and that is the ONLY one we should let judge us !!!!!!!
Monday, February 7, 2011
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Everyone makes mistakes. You are right that some are self made mistakes and other mistakes are not your fault. We have to pray that we all learn from these mistakes, whether they are ours or others. Some people are so bitter and twisted that they get joy out of be able to pretend that they are above mistakes. They have to realize though that if they aren't putting themselves out there and living a real live that is the only reason they are not making what they call mistakes. But life is about making mistakes and learning from them. You have to pray and hope that they don't make you a bitter and mean spirited person.
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