Pitty Party !!! :(

Here I am at 9:20 at night, after a LONG day at work, I come home of course to a house that is very unappealing, messy, about 16 loads of laundry that needs to be done, a sink full of dirty dishes, a dishwasher full of dirty dishes that was never done... the list could go on and on....

I did n0t get home until about 6:45 also, after getting Erin started on her project that is due Wednesday and has to be finish tonight because she has a softball game tomorrow night, no time to get anything done tomorrow night..... anyhow, Erin is working on her project, I am cleaning like a mad woman, I am actually washing dishes by hand because the dishwasher is FULL. I am not even thinking about dinner, who has time to eat??? I thought sandwiches would be a good thing tonight considering the status of my house... well, after my 16 year old comes home, rolls her eyes and makes a comment that "I NEVER COOK ANYMORE AND DOES NOT GET A REAL MEAL ANYMORE" I am furious !!!!!
I let her have it first of all, and then I proceed to cook....... I made baked spaghetti and brownies for dessert !!!!!!!!!!!
Why ???? Is my house so messy and a disarray?? Our power was out for about 5 hours yesterday so NOTHING got done.. We ended up staying the night at Dee's house because there was no power at 10:00 still...
Why ??? do I let my teenager dictate my attitude?? Why do I let her upset me so bad??
I did cook and go overboard with the dessert... Why??? I have no flipping idea.... I am just at a loss of words, I guess I needed to vent for a moment.
Even though yesterday was Mothers day.... I feel we as mothers NEVER get enough credit... We work all day at a job that requires so much of you and there are still not enough hours in the day to get everything done there either... You come home you have laundry, dishes, dinner, homework, and then you have to clean up from dinner and get stuff ready to do it all over again the next day.......
I am just pure TYRURRRRD !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :(