Monday, September 1, 2008

Breakfast at Tiffany's

I just watched this movie for the first time ever, and it was great. I love that error in time and everything about it. Never mind the story line was great too. Audrey Hepburn was wonderful in it.

You know I am back on this Love thing again and I guess watching movies like this where people are out to find love in something that is not there or just hiding behind or within yourself while you are trying to accomplish another purpose we ALL are just looking, searching and digging deep to find one simple thing "LOVE".

I also watched last night What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas, it was very good too and had a wonderful ending as did Breakfast with Tiffany's, both of course are about that one True Love.

You know Love should be that one and only you can be yourself around during the worst and best of times. The one that you should tell all your secrets too, if something was to happen to you that person should be the first person you call or should it be? So Question: If you had some exciting news to tell, or maybe some not so exciting news Is your significant other the first person you would call????

Some days I think I could call him about this or that and other days I think not so much. I still to this day after 11 years of marriage think to myself- Will he laugh at me or think I am over reacting, or just brush it off like it does not matter, but to me it may mean the world to me. So I question myself on this question too.

I know you think I have been on this Love stuff a bit too much lately and maybe I have been, or maybe I am having some mid life crisis, hell who knows, but I like to hear what you guys have to say and give me your suggestions or comments about it.

I know as women we need to know we are loved and wanted (not just to clean, cook and take care of kids 24/7) women need to have that attention, affection, conversation and be told I Love You! Women work off of emotions, not smell, or visual contact (like a man). If we are mad or upset about something you (men) can not just crack a joke or grope us and think everything is allright we need all day attention and affection in the right manner. So you men that are reading this, take note and I have now given you an insight into the women's mind so use it to your advantage.

And if enquiring minds want to know??? My husband does not read my blog anymore since I have made it private and it is not because he was not invited. I don't really know why he has not made the effort to make a log in like the rest of you have, maybe he just does not have the time.

So please give me your comments or suggestions on my mind racing thoughts I have had once again. And if I just need to stop watching these damn movies let me know that too!

Peace :)

1 comment:

Teresa said...

Love is a word. That's it! It's definition is different to everyone. My definition of love is acceptance, RESPECT and security. Toby's is probably loyalty, sex and sex. We are all wired differently and have majorly different expectations. Need I remind you about bro Randy's lectures to us! Figure out what your definition is and then figure out his his and see how you can make them collide, that is the secret. Maybe his is you bragging on him (even if you're gagging), or making him tea in the AM before he is up, or running that queer asses bubble bath. I dunno, but figure it out and show him the love he needs and see if he doesn't then figure yours out!