Revelation

I have had a revelation: I believe that when you have been married for awhile you begin to go through the motions of "just being married" you have kids, you work, you have a house to take care of and after awhile you just get wrapped up in the motions of it all. I think that is what I can say for my "true love" we don't say I love you, we don't spend alot of time together, we don't talk much, why??? because we dont have any freakin time to do any of this. We could however tell each other we love one another, maybe that is something I will start to work on, however Chance will probably think something is wrong, but I will give it a shot.
So if you have had the same question as I, I believe that is what it is. You just get caught up in the motions of being a wife,mother,friend,co-worker, ect. So whatever your definition of true love is I think we all know deep down what our meaning of that is, I guess how we keep the love going is up to us.
Try something out of the ordinary with your relationship, have a date night (without kids) what the freak would that be like??? Take dance lessons (like a couple I know), tell each other I love you, point blank "make time for your relationship" and spice it up a little bit!